The moment you saw "his" face you thought that this would be the breaking point in your life. The moment where you would meet the guy who fufilled all your dreams, the man who had it all. Well there is no perfect moment in wich a girl can fall in love. Some people say it comes naturally, and some people say that its based on the time and place. Like the theory that everything has a purpose and a place,and our universe is not based on randomness. Well really what's the point in having a relationship if it was based on purpse, if it was meant to be.How about if you wanted to change it around, to change the face of reality. Well this is the trouble about love. Nobody knows when it's going to hit you. When it's going to spread it over powering hypnosess on you. This is the love that will change you life forever.
You know how people say that love is a drug that everybody is addicted to? Well what if it's not. What if its the passion and emotion that you show towards a certain person that determines your fate together. In my opinion I think that love can come in any age. Sure you can supposedley "fall in love" when your 13. But did you ever think that this may just be your insecurity or your low self esteem to hold onto somebody as long as you can, untill theres nothing left in between you. There are certain types of love......such as your highschool crush. This is the type of love that is based on first reactions. The ones that are classified under chemistry. Of course you fall asleep every night thinking about this person, but everybody seems to look in the long run. I don't think that looking in the future in where you relationship could be will benifit you in any way. What happend to living in the moment? Isent the more important thing is how you feel right now, and not what you feel the next day? Another question has affected me in an odd way. Why is it when you say"forever" feels as though it's some sort of mystery. Well this mystery is the compassion in true love. A true love doesent neccessarily have to last your whole life. A true love is the fufillment in your heart. Its the kind of love that makes you feel as though nothing can brake you apart. The love that tortues your soul until you cant take it. Well is this the devestating end of a perfect relation ship? Or the start of a beautifull beginning. You know how not one girl can never experience the perfect moment of love........It's because nobody interperates love in the same way. We manage to love in a way that makes it perfect for eachother.
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Great job, I completely agree with you and I think that love plays a very important role in our lives. Almost like we're each half of a person, and when we find someone we love, it makes a whole.
ReplyDeleteBut why did you only talk about that kind of love? You know, the kind of love that you share with your "other half", if you know what I mean. What about the kind of love that you share with your family and friends? Maybe it's because the "other half" love is so hard to find that people appreciate it more when they find it. But family and friend love is with you your whole life, so, unfortunately, many people look at it as a right, not a privilege. But family and friend love is much more important in my opinion. First of all, you have a blood relation with your family that your "other half" cannot even come close to. You can have many lovers in your lifetime, but only one family.
Also, couples divorce and separate all the time. Maybe they don't love each other anymore, or they want something else in their lives? Whatever the reason, it's easy to find another lover. There are many people out ther that can fill your heart and make your dreams come true, but family and friends are forever, and they can never be replaced.
Ya I totally agree with you. But isent falling in love teaching you how to correspond and relate with your blood relatives in different ways? I understand that your blood relatives teach you the path and direct you into the person that is most compatible with you. I think that meeting someone and using these new social skills will persist them to start a new friendship or a relation ship of romance. I know that family and friends can never be replaced and they ARE probabley the most meaningfull people in your life. But once you let go of your love they will never ever leave you heart. That relationship will stick with you foever, and therefor you can never replace this person in your life.
ReplyDeleteBut that's not all a family is for. They guide you through life, they teach you new things. They help you and they'll always be there for you. You will have many boyfriends in your life. Each one can be replaced, and each one will be better than the last. Eventually you'll find one that cannot be replaced, and hopefully you'll be with them forever. But in the end it's your family that you turn to because they have a bond with you that no one else can. They have a blood relation with you that no one else could ever have. Unless you become a blood donor and then your lover needs blood and then your blood is injected into them... but that's besides the point.
ReplyDeleteAnyways... When you grow up and someone asks "How many boyfriends have you had?" The answer will surely be more than one.
But when someone asks "How many mothers have you had?" The answer will always remain the same: One. Same for your father, brother, sister, grandparents, etc...
In this whole world, there's only a handful of people that you can call family.
Yupp I totally agree with that. Guys have coodies so who needs them anyway? <3
ReplyDeleteSo true, Turkey Vulture, so, so true.
ReplyDeleteI just have a question. If you can fall in love at 13, then when i say i love Chris, why do you say, 'omg Sheridan! no you dont!'?
ReplyDeleteI agree with everything else i think So GOOD JOB!